How to tie the Four In Hand Knot using the pattern “Behind Across Out”
IN A NUTSHELL (detailed steps below):
- Set up the tie hole
- make the fat end of the tie go “Behind Across Out”
- and then finish it up
TERMINOLOGY NOTE: There are two ends of a tie to deal with: the skinny end of the tie, and the fat end of the tie.
SETTING UP THE TIE HOLE:
1. Take the tie and place it around your neck, so the seam side of the tie is “down” (or against your body).
2. Adjust the skinny end so that it is almost to your belt buckle (Later, I will post a whole other section about this important step).
3. Cross the fat end over the skinny end to make an X across your shirt.
4. With your thumb and forefinger, grab both ends at the point at which they cross (the center of the X).
5. You are now setup to tie your tie. NOTE: The area between the center of the X and your neck is what I call the “tie hole”.
USING THE TIE HOLE:
1. Take the fat end of the tie and make it go BEHIND the hole, so that it crosses over your thumb that is holding the center of the X.
2. Take the fat end of the tie and make it go ACROSS the front of the hole, so it crosses over your forefinger that is holding the X.
3. Take the fat end of the tie and make it go OUT of the hole again, and then pull it through so it falls nicely in front of you.
FINISH IT UP:
At this point you need to take the fat end of the tie and make it go behind the “ACROSS” step. You should have your forefinger (that is holding the center of the X) sitting right where the “ACROSS” step went. Push the fat end through that space and then pull it through.
Now let go of the center of the X, grab hold of the skinny end, and push the knot up. This will tighten the tie around your neck.